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Question: really depressed and really need help.?
I’m going to be 15 this july and I’m a girl.
All my life i’ve been home schooled and I’m extremely lonely, I haven’t had friend since I was 8.
my mom says I don’t need friends, and that most people, my age are bad influences.
when I was 12 she beat me, till I had red marks, that lasted for about a two weeks, also when I was 12 I got a really bad hair cut, and my dad said to not be seen with him, unless I wore a hat.
I have two brothers,The one that lived with us my mom used to baby anything he asked for he got,he had friends and mom wnt out of her way to get him friends, he never got in trouble and would blame stuff on me and laugh Any time I got in trouble, he has been moved out for about 3 years he is married, and has a son. but even tho mom did all that for him he treats her like S*it! he ignores her never comes by never call we can say hi and he ignores her and me. the other brother just mover to town a year ago, he lived with his mom. (my dads ex wife)
I found this free german learn website (that I really like) and she said that I’m not smart enough to learn a new language. she is a christian and asks me all the time what I pray and if I pray about, my mom only listens to christian music and HATES heavy metal, I love heavy Metal if she found out I listen to heavy metal she would get very angry! But for me heavy metal kinda makes me feel better,
I don’t believe in god because I was even more depressed when I did. my dad tells me I’m worthless at least once a week. Being home schooled is awful! some times It will be a week before I go out side, one time she even got mad because I read the book “Alice in wounder land” and some times It will be 5 hours before she comes out if her room, I can tell she doesn’t want me around.
The only thing about home schooling is that when I do get out its out of the country. like me and my dad are leaving for germany next month, but that’s the only good thing. and I know when we get back I’m going to ger really depressed Again.
I’m lonely depressed and sad!
I know it was long but what would you do if you where me?
Please no rude comments
Thanks!
she told me today I had a horrible personality hates the way I dress and I do a crappy jo on my makeup.
shes even starting to piss me dad off he said that he might divorce her when we get back from Germany.
The thing about the music is that it helps my relieve stress and makes my feel better.
Oh and we don’t go to church.
Answer:
Answer by anikia
You need to sit down with your mom and tell her how you feel even if she doesnt want to listen because she might feel depressed to maybe you guys can meet eye hope it helps!
Question: Home schooled depressed and need help!?
I’m going to be 15 this july and I’m a girl.
All my life i’ve been home schooled and I’m extremely lonely, I haven’t had friend since I was 8.
my mom says I don’t need friends, and that most people, my age are bad influences.
when I was 12 she beat me, till I had red marks, that lasted for about a two weeks, also when I was 12 I got a really bad hair cut, and my dad said to not be seen with him, unless I wore a hat.
I have two brothers,The one that lived with us my mom used to baby anything he asked for he got,he had friends and mom wnt out of her way to get him friends, he never got in trouble and would blame stuff on me and laugh Any time I got in trouble, he has been moved out for about 3 years he is married, and has a son. but even tho mom did all that for him he treats her like S*it! he ignores her never comes by never call we can say hi and he ignores her and me. the other brother just mover to town a year ago, he lived with his mom. (my dads ex wife)
I found this free german learn website (that I really like) and she said that I’m not smart enough to learn a new language. she is a christian and asks me all the time what I pray and if I pray about, my mom only listens to christian music and HATES heavy metal, I love heavy Metal if she found out I listen to heavy metal she would get very angry! But for me heavy metal kinda makes me feel better,
I don’t believe in god because I was even more depressed when I did. my dad tells me I’m worthless at least once a week. Being home schooled is awful! some times It will be a week before I go out side, one time she even got mad because I read the book “Alice in wounder land” and some times It will be 5 hours before she comes out if her room, I can tell she doesn’t want me around.
The only thing about home schooling is that when I do get out its out of the country. like me and my dad are leaving for germany next month, but that’s the only good thing. and I know when we get back I’m going to ger really depressed Again.
I’m lonely depressed and sad!
I know it was long but what would you do if you where me?
Please no rude comments
Thanks!
Also I’ve tried talking to her about these things and she walks out of the room and she gets mad any time I bring up making friends oh and public school is not an option.
Answer:
Answer by Annie D
I would call Social Services and report your mother. It doesn’t sound like she is treating you legally. At least there is a light at the end of your tunnel for now.
When your mom asks what you pray about, tell her that you pray for peace.
Question: Home schooled and really depressed and really need help.?
I’m going to be 15 this july and I’m a girl.
All my life i’ve been home schooled and I’m extremely lonely, I haven’t had friend since I was 8.
my mom says I don’t need friends, and that most people, my age are bad influences.
when I was 12 she beat me, till I had red marks, that lasted for about a two weeks, also when I was 12 I got a really bad hair cut, and my dad said to not be seen with him, unless I wore a hat.
I have two brothers,The one that lived with us my mom used to baby anything he asked for he got,he had friends and mom wnt out of her way to get him friends, he never got in trouble and would blame stuff on me and laugh Any time I got in trouble, he has been moved out for about 3 years he is married, and has a son. but even tho mom did all that for him he treats her like S*it! he ignores her never comes by never call we can say hi and he ignores her and me. the other brother just mover to town a year ago, he lived with his mom. (my dads ex wife)
I found this free german learn website (that I really like) and she said that I’m not smart enough to learn a new language. she is a christian and asks me all the time what I pray and if I pray about, my mom only listens to christian music and HATES heavy metal, I love heavy Metal if she found out I listen to heavy metal she would get very angry! But for me heavy metal kinda makes me feel better,
I don’t believe in god because I was even more depressed when I did. my dad tells me I’m worthless at least once a week. Being home schooled is awful! some times It will be a week before I go out side, one time she even got mad because I read the book “Alice in wounder land” and some times It will be 5 hours before she comes out if her room, I can tell she doesn’t want me around.
The only thing about home schooling is that when I do get out its out of the country. like me and my dad are leaving for germany next month, but that’s the only good thing. and I know when we get back I’m going to ger really depressed Again.
I’m lonely depressed and sad!
I know it was long but what would you do if you where me?
Please no rude comments
Thanks!
Also I’ve tried talking to her about these things and she walks out of the room and she gets mad any time I bring up making friends oh and public school is not an option.
I posted this question once before but I need as many answers as possible.
Answer:
Answer by A
I don’t think there is anything you can do 
Just look forward to getting older and leaving home and don’t let your kids be home schooled. Everyone needs friends.
Question: Home schooled and really depressed and really need help.?
I’m going to be 15 this july and I’m a girl.
All my life i’ve been home schooled and I’m extremely lonely, I haven’t had friend since I was 8.
my mom says I don’t need friends, and that most people, my age are bad influences.
when I was 12 she beat me, till I had red marks, that lasted for about a two weeks, also when I was 12 I got a really bad hair cut, and my dad said to not be seen with him, unless I wore a hat.
I have two brothers,The one that lived with us my mom used to baby anything he asked for he got,he had friends and mom wnt out of her way to get him friends, he never got in trouble and would blame stuff on me and laugh Any time I got in trouble, he has been moved out for about 3 years he is married, and has a son. but even tho mom did all that for him he treats her like S*it! he ignores her never comes by never call we can say hi and he ignores her and me. the other brother just mover to town a year ago, he lived with his mom. (my dads ex wife)
I found this free german learn website (that I really like) and she said that I’m not smart enough to learn a new language. she is a christian and asks me all the time what I pray and if I pray about, my mom only listens to christian music and HATES heavy metal, I love heavy Metal if she found out I listen to heavy metal she would get very angry! But for me heavy metal kinda makes me feel better,
I don’t believe in god because I was even more depressed when I did. my dad tells me I’m worthless at least once a week. Being home schooled is awful! some times It will be a week before I go out side, one time she even got mad because I read the book “Alice in wounder land” and some times It will be 5 hours before she comes out if her room, I can tell she doesn’t want me around.
The only thing about home schooling is that when I do get out its out of the country. like me and my dad are leaving for germany next month, but that’s the only good thing. and I know when we get back I’m going to ger really depressed Again.
I’m lonely depressed and sad!
I know it was long but what would you do if you where me?
Please no rude comments
Thanks!
she told me today I had a horrible personality hates the way I dress and I do a crappy jo on my makeup.
shes even starting to piss me dad off he said that he might divorce her when we get back from Germany.
The thing about the music is that it helps my relieve stress and makes my feel better.
Answer:
Answer by lifes_ironic
Do what you love and do what makes you happy.
I have been abused, my family hates everything I live for, but it makes me happy.
If it means keeping it a secret then do so.
Go online and meet new people just don’t give them your information so they cant creep on you and rape you. Learn a new language and when you go to germany make friends that you can keep in contact with.
Question: Home schooled, depressed and really need help!?
I’m going to be 15 this july and I’m a girl.
All my life i’ve been home schooled and I’m extremely lonely, I haven’t had friend since I was 8.
my mom says I don’t need friends, and that most people, my age are bad influences.
when I was 12 she beat me, till I had red marks, that lasted for about a two weeks, also when I was 12 I got a really bad hair cut, and my dad said to not be seen with him, unless I wore a hat.
I have two brothers,The one that lived with us my mom used to baby anything he asked for he got,he had friends and mom wnt out of her way to get him friends, he never got in trouble and would blame stuff on me and laugh Any time I got in trouble, he has been moved out for about 3 years he is married, and has a son. but even tho mom did all that for him he treats her like S*it! he ignores her never comes by never call we can say hi and he ignores her and me. the other brother just mover to town a year ago, he lived with his mom. (my dads ex wife)
I found this free german learn website (that I really like) and she said that I’m not smart enough to learn a new language. she is a christian and asks me all the time what I pray and if I pray about, my mom only listens to christian music and HATES heavy metal, I love heavy Metal if she found out I listen to heavy metal she would get very angry! But for me heavy metal kinda makes me feel better,
I don’t believe in god because I was even more depressed when I did. my dad tells me I’m worthless at least once a week. Being home schooled is awful! some times It will be a week before I go out side, one time she even got mad because I read the book “Alice in wounder land” and some times It will be 5 hours before she comes out if her room, I can tell she doesn’t want me around.
The only thing about home schooling is that when I do get out its out of the country. like me and my dad are leaving for germany next month, but that’s the only good thing. and I know when we get back I’m going to ger really depressed Again.
I’m lonely depressed and sad!
I know it was long but what would you do if you where me?
Please no rude comments
Thanks!
Also I’ve tried talking to her about these things and she walks out of the room and she gets mad any time I bring up making friends.
Answer:
Answer by Holly
try to move out with a different family member and if my mom said somethng i didnt like id just start rebelling!!!!!!
Question: Home schooled and really depressed and really need help.?
I’m going to be 15 this july and I’m a girl.
All my life i’ve been home schooled and I’m extremely lonely, I haven’t had friend since I was 8.
my mom says I don’t need friends, and that most people, my age are bad influences.
when I was 12 she beat me, till I had red marks, that lasted for about a two weeks, also when I was 12 I got a really bad hair cut, and my dad said to not be seen with him, unless I wore a hat.
I have two brothers,The one that lived with us my mom used to baby anything he asked for he got,he had friends and mom wnt out of her way to get him friends, he never got in trouble and would blame stuff on me and laugh Any time I got in trouble, he has been moved out for about 3 years he is married, and has a son. but even tho mom did all that for him he treats her like S*it! he ignores her never comes by never call we can say hi and he ignores her and me. the other brother just mover to town a year ago, he lived with his mom. (my dads ex wife)
I found this free german learn website (that I really like) and she said that I’m not smart enough to learn a new language. she is a christian and asks me all the time what I pray and if I pray about, my mom only listens to christian music and HATES heavy metal, I love heavy Metal if she found out I listen to heavy metal she would get very angry! But for me heavy metal kinda makes me feel better,
I don’t believe in god because I was even more depressed when I did. my dad tells me I’m worthless at least once a week. Being home schooled is awful! some times It will be a week before I go out side, one time she even got mad because I read the book “Alice in wounder land” and some times It will be 5 hours before she comes out if her room, I can tell she doesn’t want me around.
The only thing about home schooling is that when I do get out its out of the country. like me and my dad are leaving for germany next month, but that’s the only good thing. and I know when we get back I’m going to ger really depressed Again.
I’m lonely depressed and sad!
I know it was long but what would you do if you where me?
Please no rude comments
Thanks!
Like today my mom told me I had a horrible personalty and that she hated the way I dressed and I do a crappy job on my make up.
I was talking to my dad about these thins and he said “when we get back from germany and things don’t get better I’ll divorce her”
Answer:
Answer by Dawn
So long as your not being abused. Just wait til that great day you turn 18.
Question: Please i need help finding songs the relate to the book “of Mice and Men”?
So here is my project i have to find 7 songs that somehow relate to the book “of Mice and Men” so far i only have 2 songs please someone help me i dont listen to a lot of music so i dont know any music artists or actual songs please help me guys ~Thank you
Answer:
Answer by dougm
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Question: Need an opinion – Is my father a jerk?
Just a little under an hour ago my mother and I were sitting on the couch. She had bought a bottle of soda earlier that day, and I looked over at it just to see how much was left out of curiosity. I enjoy smelling things (but I’m not particularly weird about it) and so I sniffed the mouth of the bottle, just to smell that lemon-citrus type of smell that I was expecting from her bottle of 7-Up.
My mother is an alcoholic, and my father knows it. He himself was also an alcoholic, but has been sober for almost twenty years. She’s been caught sneaking drinks and whatnot ever since she tried to quit, but is doing well considering.
She had been talking and chatting to friends on the phone, and she seemed to be having a great time just being at home on the couch. She had Christmas music playing, and you could tell she was getting into a pretty nice mood just checking up on people I can only assume she hadn’t spoken to in ages.
When I smelled the bottle, she said, “There’s nothing left” to which I replied, “What, you mean all this?” There was a good amount of soda left in it in my opinion, but more to the point, my father saw all of that, and said something along the lines of, “at least we know why she’s been calling up everyone in her address book.”
In case you guys don’t get it, he was implying that my mother was drinking.
He laughed after he said that and went upstairs, but I was amazed he would even joke about something like that. He’s always been a bit mean-spirited, making mean jokes, and at this point in my life (I’m seventeen) I feel like I need to start confronting him about the things he does that bother me. At the time I was under the impression he might have thought my mother was actually sneaking a drink in the 7-Up bottle, so I followed him and reassured him that it was only soda, to which he replied something like, “Whatever.”
He continued to try and laugh about it and make light of what he said, but I wasn’t having any of it. He upset my mother, and even if she had been drinking and there was something I wasn’t aware of that happened while I was at school, I don’t understand why he would joke about something she’s struggling with.
The conversation between me and him from there went a little sour, because I just didn’t understand why he was being so mean (in my opinion). I told him I didn’t think he should be laughing about something like that, to which he said, “What, laughing about the truth? It’s the only way I can move past it.” For the record, I thought that was one of the most melodramatic bullshit excuses I’ve heard in a long time. At that point, I knew he didn’t have much a leg to stand on.
We ended up having a pretty big argument in his room, and I told him, just as I’m telling you guys, how I felt about him being mean-spirited and how I felt about him making light of the situation. He told me that I didn’t respect him, and that I had something against him because I’m a teenager. I went on about how the way he talks to people might not be the best, but he ended up saying in the end that he, “…didn’t care…” because he’s “…gone through more things…” and “…lived more years…” then I have.
I left the room, and saw my mother sitting at the bottom of the stairs. She had heard the entire conversation.
I went downstairs and told her how I was just reacting to what he said to her, and how I didn’t appreciate any of it, and she started crying. She said she just didn’t want me to get dragged into the middle of everything, but I told her that I did it because I wanted to. I told her how badly I’ve been wanting to tell my father how I really felt about a lot of the things he does, and how I did just that tonight. She seemed comforted, which in turn comforted me.
Teardrops aside, I’d like to get some opinions.
Did I overreact, or is my father a jerk?
I’d like to think that I read his actions and words perfectly, but I have my doubts. It seems to me that he has some sort of attitude towards her drinking, as he should, but more so because he’s an alcoholic as well and got better. As noble as that sounds, it almost feels like he thinks he’s better than her just because of it. I think all the “laughing” might have been the product of a bad joke he was unwilling to admit was messed up and accept responsibility for.
Did I read him right?
I understand that my father might have a point with my mother’s drinking, I just think that even if she had been drinking at the time, why make it awkward for everyone in the room and make me feel terrible about it while at the same time trying to joke about something like that?
Answer:
Answer by †LifeOnLoan†
You dad simply does not know how to help your mother, or you. He is the one MOST aware of his shortcomings.
Do not judge him for his humanness and inabilities.
Love and support him for his strengths………………………..YES, he has some. The cold hard and ugly truth is ( at least) he has not thrown your mom to the curb.
Question: need help with an essay!!?
we started reading the book “1984″ by George orwell in 1949. so our the teacher told us to imagine that its year 2035, and we should create a detailed world and tell how our future would be like, considering the advancements in technology, how the media(video games, music etc…) is changed and how it affects our lifestyle. this assignment has to be in the form of an essay…..
So please share your ideas or at least give me tips or anything 
thank you
Answer:
Answer by Casey Thompson
They did the same back in 1960′s about 2000′s and they said wed have flying cars and shit. Just write about how its a different president and more recycling and what not. Other than that I doubt much change will happen. Unless some one snaps and sends a nuke
Question: I need some songs about jail.?
im doing a project and need songs about jail lifestyle,racsim on african americans and maybe a song about being fasely put to jail. a sad song about loneliness would be helpfull too.if anyone has read the book “monster” it would help.
all types of songs like rap, rock, hip hop, country,jazz..anything at all. I need a variety of music though.
Answer:
Answer by Jason
Best prison song ever:
Folsom Prison Blues by Johnny Cash.